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Single Mother Rev. Lisa D. Jenkins Was Expelled From Church, Now First Female Pastor of St. Matthew’s Baptist Church…

Hey World,

Completely satisfied Moms Day to the all of the moms out there! On this Moms Day, I need to highlight Rev. Lisa D. Jenkins, who’s the tenth pastor and first feminine to steer the almost 95-year-old St. Matthew’s Baptist Church situated in Harlem, New York.  Nevertheless, 24 years in the past she was expelled from the church because she was pregnant and unwed. Please learn her biography under followed by my interview of her.

Pastor of Harlem’s St. Matthew’s Baptist Church, Rev. Lisa D. Jenkins acquired her bachelor’s degree in speech communications with an emphasis in journalism from Tempo University and attained the diploma of master of divinity from New York Theological Seminary.  She is at present a doctoral scholar at McCormick Theology Seminary as a Dr. Jeremiah A. Wright Scholar.

Moreover, Rev. Jenkins has taught New Testomony Research and Biblical Exegesis at New York Theological Seminary, and serves as an adjunct lecturer of Cultural Variety within the Historical past and Philosophy Division at York School/City University of New York.  Along with her pastoral and educational work, Rev. Jenkins lectures and facilitates workshops and seminars on a spread of subjects including, however not restricted to, Balancing Household & Ministry, Single Parenting, Psychological Health & the Black Church, Ladies in Ministry and extra. Rev. Jenkins is a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Included, the NAACP and is an advocate of each adults & youngsters with ADHD.

She can also be the writer of the just lately released ebook

As a pastor, she brings over 30 years of numerous expertise gained within the corporate sector, academia and in faith-based settings.  Her experiences embrace modeling on the stage of the world famous Apollo Theatre, singing with the Grammy Award-winning Hezekiah Walker & The Love Fellowship Crusade Choir, working as on-air radio announcer, and serving on group boards, metropolis activity forces and numerous non-profit organizations.

Rev. Lisa D. Jenkins is the proud mom of Jordan Christopher Jenkins-Crandle.

1. How have been you expelled out of your church?

Yes, I was kicked out of the church. I used to be expelled from church. I did return ultimately. I used to be pregnant, but I was 28 years previous. I used to be previous (laughter). I used to be a grown lady out of school. At that time, I used to be working for RJR Nabisco. It was a Fortune 100 firm at that time. As a matter of reality, I had just handed in my resignation because I was traveling with Love Fellowship Crusade Choir. I used to be traveling with Hezekiah Walker. I keep in mind we did the ‘Live at Morehouse’ album, and I was so sick and I was so drained. We did it in January. I had no concept I used to be pregnant after which I came upon I was pregnant. I keep in mind Bishop Walker. He wasn’t a bishop on the time, however he was so variety to me. I was mendacity in mattress in the future. I was just lamenting my life.  I had executed a lot however right here I used to be at this point and time pregnant.

I keep in mind Bishop Walker calling me as a result of he was starting his church, and he requested was I capable of help out with one thing. I keep in mind I used to be boohooing. I stated, ‘I can’t. I’m pregnant. I can’t do something.’ And I will always remember. He stated, ‘Lisa, don’t worry a few thing. Youngsters are by no means a mistake. God has acquired you. God goes to keep your youngster. Know that I’m here for you, Love Fellowship is right here for you. Don’t fear a few thing.’ He was just so encouraging.

But at my church, it was totally different. I wasn’t holding any management positions at my church Ebenezer Baptist Church in Flushing, Queens. I feel I used to be singing in the choir but nothing else. My pastor stated to me that I ought to stop coming for a while. This dialog was by telephone. I don’t keep in mind how he came upon. It was all a haze. I keep in mind not understanding what he was saying because definitely I was not the first female to be pregnant and unwed at that church. I do keep in mind he stated, ‘You’re starting to present and you’re not like the others.’ I keep in mind being speechless. He stated, ‘You’re one of the leaders.’ And I keep in mind saying, ‘I’m not in leadership. I’m not holding any workplaces.’ He stated, ‘You’re very seen.’

Afterward although, he invited me again to the church a couple of weeks later after individuals had came upon that he requested me to stop coming to the church. As a result of my son’s father was the minister of music and was nonetheless enjoying the organ on the church. My son’s father is an effective individual, however marriage was not an choice or possible. But my pastor by no means actually apologized though. I did not go back immediately, however I did go back. I used to be away from the church three or 4 months or so.

I ultimately had my son in 1994 and my church was very welcoming. The subsequent thing I knew the pastor that advised me not to come to the church licensed me to evangelise the gospel three years later in 1997. He wound up saying that he did not know easy methods to handle the state of affairs because he thought there was a calling on my life. Again, he by no means apologized, but I took it for what it was: somebody who grew up in a special period who though he wasn’t towards ladies in ministry, but we reside in a really patriarchal society.

2. How did you obtain your call to ministry?

Quite a bit of individuals will tell me that they have been referred to as to ministry. I by no means tell anybody I was referred to as to ministry. It was something that was validated by different individuals all the time. Different individuals within the church, moms within the church. My earlier pastor’s spouse. I was all the time requested to talk, preside at banquets. I used to be all the time requested to introduce individuals.

So there was a Youth Day arising. It was 1995 or 1996 I feel. And my pastor referred to as me and stated, ‘I need for you to speak for Youth Day.’ I stated, ‘Sure, not a problem.’ I stated, ‘Is that going to be before the preacher or after the preacher?’ He stated, ‘No, I need for you to speak.’ I stated, ‘Well, who is going to be the preacher?’ He stated, ‘There is no preacher. It’s just going to be you.’ I keep in mind simply standing there as a result of I was on the telephone. I wasn’t comprehending as a result of in my mind, it’s a must to have a preacher.  I stated, ‘What is this? I thought you said it was Sunday morning. Is this an afternoon event? Is this a banquet?’ He stated, ‘It’s Sunday morning service and it’s Youth Day. I want for you to be the primary speaker. You’re going to speak from the rostrum from the lectern on the aspect. But when it comes time for the Phrase, you’re going to be it. ’ And mind you, that is two years after I had my son. I stated, ‘Okay.’

I keep in mind getting of the telephone and I keep in mind calling, we name her Ya-Ya. God relaxation her soul. Her precise identify is Percynthia Brown. She was one of the mothers of the church and I referred to as her because I was confused. I stated, ‘Ya-Ya, Pastor just called me and he wants me to speak. But he says there is not going to be a preacher.’ She stated, ‘Baby, that’s what I’ve been making an attempt to inform you. God has a calling on your life.’ So I spoke. It was an ideal service. The message was well-received. We had an exquisite time within the Lord.

And shortly after that, Pastor stated, ‘I want you to have your trial sermon. How do you feel about that?’  By that point, alone,  I used to be already going to a Bible institute locally. Also, there was another church that had a Baptist institute that I attended. This was not for preaching or skilled ministry.  This was just to study more about God alone. I have all the time been a learner and a reader. I was reading the Bible at 2 a.m. within the morning alone.

So I had a trial sermon on the final Sunday in October in 1997. It was a packed home. My sermon title was ‘The Least Likely.’ It was based mostly on 1 Samuel the place David was the least more likely to be chosen to be the king of Israel. Out of all of Jesse’s sons who have been kingly, David was within the again with the sheep and the prophet stated, ‘Is there another? Don’t you’ve another son?’ He stated, ‘Yeah, I do but he’s out within the back. However you don’t want him. Take a look at my different sons.’ Samuel stated, ‘No bring your son from the back.’ So he was the least doubtless.

So from there, God simply made a approach. Every time I went locations, my son was with me. I had a collapsible bassinet in the trunk of my automotive.

three. You additionally credit your church mom with serving to you together with your calling to ministry to ministry. Is there anyone else who helped you as properly?

My precise mom Lucy Mae Jenkins. She had me at 49 years previous. They advised her I used to be a tumor. They usually advised her that she shouldn’t have me once they came upon that I used to be not a tumor. They advised her she needed to have a medical abortion as a result of it’s going to be dangerous for you. She stated, ‘No, that’s not going to happen.’ She lived long enough to see me pastor my first church Blessed Trinity Baptist Church in Harlem. She had my brother on the age of 17 however after that, she had no other youngsters until she had me.

four. Now that you simply’re a pastor of a church, in the event you had a lady to get pregnant in your congregation who was in leadership or just any lady, how would you cope with that?

How would I cope with that? I might be loving to her. I might do what Hezekiah Walker did and say, ‘God loves you.’ I might ask her what she needs. Is she okay? I don’t know methods to reply that because to me it’s like respiration. Like when somebody goes via one thing, you say, ‘What can I do for you?’ Is there something that the church can do for you? Do you want help?’ And she or he may be high-quality. She could also be vice-president of an organization with a household behind her or she might be a single mother on public help dwelling in tasks around the corner.

The Bible says that we are presupposed to be type to at least one one other and that we aren’t purported to gossip. That there shouldn’t be adultery. That we clothe and feed the hungry. The Bible tells us tons of issues that we do not do. The church is full of individuals who treat each other in nasty ways however we’re not speaking about that. We’re talking about someone who has gotten pregnant out of wedlock which needs to dealt with compassion. We need to ensure that the individual’s wants are taken care of and that they continue to be reconciled to Christ identical to all of us once we wake up within the morning and we’ve things occur to us throughout the day which may go towards the desire of God. I’m one of those individuals who is beyond this nitpicking about which sin is worse.

I might never tell someone not to come to church. Are you kidding me?

5.What about in the event that they have been in management?

Depends upon what the ministry is. If they have been a preacher or pastor, I might counsel them. I might hope that they had sufficient humility to do what is important for their own sake, for their very own religious well-being. In case you are in a management place, I shouldn’t have to take a seat anybody down. I would go away that to God because God will cope with that. Because there are some occasions once we all have to take a retreat or a sabbatical whether you’re pregnant or not.

6. What have been the blessings and challenges of being a single father or mother and minister?

Childcare and ensuring that his wants have been taken care of. But I did have a very supportive network. Once I traveled  to preach or went some place to steer a research, they knew that I had my son with me. Typically, he would sit with the First Woman or if I had somebody that got here with me, my son would sit with that individual. It was difficult but doable.

7. Any advice for single mother and father?

Quite a bit of single mother and father are praying for a husband or spouse to assist them, however my prayer is that God’s might be accomplished in your life and that you simply be strengthened and inspired in your singleness and for no matter God has in retailer for you, figuring out that God is able to do all issues. I keep in mind when my son was younger, I might pray for a associate, but I noticed it was for the fallacious reasons.  I might say, ‘I wish I had someone to help me take this garbage out. I’m so drained.’ ‘I wish I had someone to help me rake these leaves.’ ‘Oh my goodness, it’s snowing outdoors. I want someone to assist me shovel this snow.’ ‘I need someone to help me get up in the middle of the night and change diapers.’ But God is our assist. And once I assume again, those have been really egocentric causes. The proper purpose is that God would send someone who is important in order that His will can be completed in both of their lives.

Paul says that it’s not sinful to be single. In case you are single, then you’ll be able to dedicate more of your time to the Lord. And in case you’re married, your time is dedicated to your spouse.

I’m very snug in my singleness now, but if it’s God will to be married in the future, then absolutely. However I really like strolling into an empty house every day!

For extra details about Rev. Lisa D. Jenkins, go to her web site: lisadjenkins.org.

Completely satisfied Mothers Day to all of the moms out there 🙂

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